Facing an unplanned pregnancy can feel overwhelming, and maybe you think abortion is the only option that will help everything feel back to normal again.
Your feelings are understandable, but it’s important to know that you have options other than abortion—and your family can help provide a vital support system as you navigate your decision and move forward.
If you’re wondering how to talk to your family when considering abortion, this article can help. However, if you’re looking for a confidential place to learn more about abortion and your other options, we’re here for you. Contact us today to connect with one of our caring advocates.
Learn About Your Options First
Before talking to your family, learn all you can about your options. While abortion is one of your choices, your other options include parenting and adoption.
You might feel like abortion is your only option—but it’s so important to know that resources are available to help you if you choose parenting or adoption. And at Relevant Pregnancy Options, we can help connect you to these resources and find the support you need to make the decision that’s right for you.
Think About the Time and Place
Once you’ve learned about your options and understand why you’re leaning toward one over the other, it’s important to think about a time and place to talk to your family. When choosing the time and place, pick a day and time when everyone is least likely to be distracted. For example, if everyone is off work and more relaxed on the weekends, this can be a good time.
Furthermore, consider where you feel most comfortable. Would you prefer to talk in the quiet and calm of your home? Or would talking somewhere in public, like a park, make you feel safer?
Be Honest about Your Feelings
When you talk to your family, it’s critical to be honest about how you’re feeling. If you’re considering abortion or another pregnancy decision, let them know why. And then invite them to share their feelings. This will create the space for an honest dialogue.
Some things to consider include:
- Why am I considering abortion? (Is it due to financial reasons, fear of my future, trouble with my partner, etc.?)
- How will I respond to my family if they disagree with the decision I’m considering?
- What are some ways that my family can show support right now?
We’re Here for You
You’re not alone as you navigate your pregnancy decision. At Relevant Pregnancy Options Center, we’re here for you.
And please remember, abortion isn’t your only option. If you have a heart to parent or are considering adoption, we can connect you with the resources you need to succeed and feel supported along the way.
Contact us today to learn how we’re here to help.
Relevant Pregnancy Options Center does not provide or refer for abortions.