Finding out your partner is unexpectedly pregnant can raise many questions. Whether you have been waiting to find out or the news took you by surprise, it’s normal to feel uncertain about what to do next.
You don’t have to have all the answers right now, and you don’t have to face this situation alone.
Relevant Pregnancy Options Center in Highland, Illinois, is here to help. We offer free pregnancy services for your partner and parenting classes for both of you. If you’re ready to talk, schedule an appointment today.
Start by Taking a Breath
It’s okay to feel a mix of emotions like shock, fear, confusion, or even excitement. Take time to think through your feelings, even if it’s just for an evening. Any amount of time can help you breathe.
Be Honest with Your Partner
Open the door for honest conversations. Ask her how she’s feeling and share your own thoughts, too. You may disagree now, but simply listening to each other can build trust and help you move forward as a team.
Support Her in Practical Ways
Even small actions go a long way. Offer to attend appointments with her, help with errands, and spend time with her. Your support matters. Ask her what she needs, and do your best to show up consistently.
Whenever you are ready, you can review your options and resources together. Consider your future as a couple and your goals for a year, five years, or more.
Take the Next Step Together
The two of you have options: parenting, adoption, and abortion. Understanding each one will help you make informed decisions. Our center offers free consultations, pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, and information in a safe, confidential setting.
An unexpected pregnancy may not have been part of your plan, but you have support. Relevant Pregnancy Options Center is here to walk with you. We’ll listen, provide answers, and offer guidance every step of the way.
Schedule an appointment today to take the next step—together.